Introductions

Jewish singles 30+ · observant-ish to fully frum

Who they are, where they live, and what they're hoping to find. Ask to be introduced to anyone here.

S. 41 · Toronto · Modern Orthodox · never married
I'm a single mom and homeschooler to my twelve-year-old daughter (and three cats), and I'm taking time right now to focus on health and family. I'm an artistic soul — song, dance, visual art — I love to cook, bake, and work out, and I put prayer, learning, and teaching Torah at the center of my life.
Hoping to meet: an established, mature man (5'10"+) with real life experience, a warm and generous spirit, and a fiery love for Hashem — health-conscious, enjoys cooking and working out, with an artistic, energetic streak. A man who wants children and would embrace being a father figure to my daughter.
S. Ramat Beit Shemesh · Orthodox · Shomer Shabbat
I live in Israel and have built a full, interesting life here. I'm warm, curious, independent, creative and very much a people person — a life transition coach by background, and these days deeply involved in building with AI. I love learning and creating: crocheting, painting, a wonderful conversation, discovering something I didn't know yesterday. Orthodox and Shomer Shabbat with a kosher home; at home across Modern Orthodox, Dati Leumi and open-minded Yeshivish communities.
Hoping to meet: a divorced or widowed Orthodox man, roughly 60–75, who has been meaningfully married before and is genuinely ready for marriage again — emotionally mature, with integrity, initiative and a sense of humour, who knows how to communicate and can take responsibility when something goes wrong. Shabbat and a kosher home matter; not a Chabad match. Israel as our primary home, or seriously planning aliyah. Financially stable, and free at this stage of life to enjoy one another — travel, family, friends, learning, good conversation, a happy home.
J. 44 · Zürich · Modern Orthodox · divorced, with children
I'm a busy mom of two girls. I love nature, cooking, and simply relaxing — and I'm always active, open to trying new things, with a natural curiosity about the world.
Hoping to meet: a mensch — someone with integrity who is looking for a serious relationship. Good communication matters most. I'd prefer someone at least 5'7", with a European background or an out-of-town mentality.
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01 — Introductions

Meet through a person.

The oldest technology in the world: someone who knows you both. Here's how it works — slowly, privately, with a human being reading every word.

Two glasses of tea on a wooden table beside a window at dusk Where this is meant to end up
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You tell us about yourself

The form below — who you are, what your life looks like, what you're hoping for. It goes to a person. Nothing is published without your explicit consent.

2.

We write your introduction

A short, anonymized card — first initial, age, city, hashkafa, and what makes you you. You approve every word before it appears. No photos, no last names, no profiles to dissect.

3.

Interest goes both ways — through us

Someone reads your card and wants to know more? They reply through us. If you're interested too, we connect you directly. If not, they never know who you were.

Request an introduction

Private. Read by one person. Never published or shared without your written consent. Free during the founding period.

Received. We'll read it and come back to you within a few days, bli neder. Thank you for trusting us with it.

Reviewed personally. No bots, no automated matching, no data sold — ever.

02 — Gatherings

Shabbatons, retreats and hosted tables.

Organizations running events for marriage-minded Jewish singles in their thirties and beyond.

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shuk.love gatherings are coming. Small, hosted, age-banded — a Melava Malka, a table of twelve, a person at the door who knows everyone's name. If you'd host or help organize one in your city, say so in the form above.
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03 — Voices

Say the true thing.

A Shabbos table laid with wine glasses, a folded napkin and a sprig of rosemary Somewhere a place is kept at the table

Being single at 34 in a community built around families is its own country, and almost nobody describes it honestly — the Shabbos invitations that dry up, the simchas that are joy and ache at once, the chuppah where you're so happy and so tired.

This wall is for the honest version. Write a letter — about the waiting, the funny parts, the faith, the Tuesday nights. We publish the real ones, anonymously, with your approval. Singles reading each other's true words: that's also a way of meeting.

Received. We'll send you the exact version before anything is published. Thank you for the honesty.
"Yours could be the one that makes someone else feel less alone this Shabbos." — The wall is open
04 — The daven board

Carry each other's names.

Two hands reaching toward each other, a single red thread drawn between them One name, carried by someone you will never meet

The oldest segulah of all: davening for someone else who needs the same yeshuah. Add a name to the board — yours, or someone you love — and take one name to carry in your tefillos.

How it works: submit a Hebrew name and mother's name (e.g. רחל בת לאה) — first names only, no surnames, no cities. The board below is that list, and whoever opens this page is asked to carry one name on it.

Chazal teach: one who davens for their friend, and they need the same thing, is answered first (Bava Kamma 92a). This board is that, organized.

Added, bli neder, after a quick review. May you be answered first.
05 — Resources

The serious toolbox.

Established services for marriage-minded Jewish singles — shadchan networks, matchmaking, wisdom, and safety. Vetted, no affiliations.

06 — Torah codes

Search the Torah for codes.

From our sister site torahcodes.online — type a word and search the text for equidistant-letter sequences.

No Hebrew keyboard? Tap the letters. A name spelled in English letters is converted letter by letter and often comes out wrong, so the search is worth doing in Hebrew.

Re: introduction

Ask to be introduced

This goes to the person who runs shuk.love — not to the member directly. They'll read it, and if it's a fit, reach out to both of you. Your details stay private until then.

Thank you — this is now with the person who runs shuk.love. If it's a fit, they'll be in touch with you both. No one's contact details are shared until both sides say yes.